slmz.mufti.i use to mastubate everyday in the past

 

Question

slmz.mufti.i use to mastubate everyday in the past.imade sincere thouba.now i want to get married wil i have marritiual or sextual problems.what must i do.is tere any duas to be read.should i get married.jkz

Answer

 

Muhtaram / Muhtaramah

 

In the Name of Allāh, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.

As-salāmu ‘alaykum wa-rahmatullāh wa-barakātuh.

We praise your concern and make dua that Allah Ta’ala guide you Ameen. Our advice to you is, if you are financially and physically capable of getting married, then you should to get married. Allah Ta’ala’s help is with the person who wishes to get married to save himself from sins.

 

Allah Ta’ala says in the Quran: “And marry those among you who are single and (also marry) the Salihin (pious ones).  (24:32)

 

Nabi (Sallallahu alayhi wa sallam) is reported to have said; “The help of Allah Ta’ala is sure for three groups of people”, one is; a person who intends to get married to keep himself chaste/modest. (Nasai,Vol.2.Pg.55.Qadimi Kutub Khana).

 

Nabi (Sallallahu alayhi wa sallam) is reported to have said; “O group of youngsters whoever among you ‘is able’ to get married, he should get married, because matrimony helps one to control his gaze (from evil) and (matrimony) is more chaste for the private part. And whoever is not able to get married should keep fast (for regular fasting helps in controlling ones intimate desires). (Bukhari, Vol.2.Pg.758. Qadimi Kutub Khana)

 

Nabi (Sallallahu alayhi wa sallam) is reported to have said; ‘Whoever continuously seeks Allah Ta’ala forgiveness, He will make a way for him to get out (from every difficulty.), ease him from all worry, and will provide for him from (sources) he never could imagine. Therefore continue making tawba to Allah Ta’ala and be confident that everything will be ok.   (Abu Dawood, Vol.1.Pg.212.H.M Saeed)

 

 

3. You should recite the following dua.

 

بسم الله على نفسي ومالي و ديني الهم رضني بقضائك وبارك لي فيما قدر لي حتى لا احب تعجيل ما اخرت ولا تاخير ما عجلت.

 

Meaning; O’ Allah I entrust myself ,my wealth and my faith to you O’ Allah let me be satisfy with your decisions and bless me with what you have destiny for me  so that I don’t desire haste in what you have delayed neither postponement of what you have hasten. (Al-Azkar,Pg.126.Dar- Al-Fikr)

And Allah knows best
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