Question:  Assalamu Alaykum What should a Muslim man do if he has a lot of regret about bad decisions that he has made in his life like not doing things earlier in his life? Answer: In the Name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful. As-Salāmu ʿAlaykum Wa-Raḥmatullāhi Wa-Barakātuh As human beings, we are prone to mistakes and shortcomings. Regret over wasted time and past decisions can be beneficial if it leads to … [Read more...]

Question: Assalamu Alaikum Dear Sir, In the year —-, I mediated a marriage alliance for my niece. It materialised in her marriage Alhamdulillah. In —- severe discord began and the marriage ended in a Qula by my niece. There were mistakes from both husband and wife which resulted in Qula, and I had no role in this discord at all. During the difficult times, my sister on one occasion, raised her hand towards the sky and uttered a … [Read more...]

Question Asalaam-o-alikum wrwb, My sisters in law (my brother’s wife) has hacked my personal email account and later said some very untrue things about me and tried to put me down front of my friends and family even with my brother who loves me. I just did not respond to anything she did to me or said about me. This is very disgraceful for a women like me.  She even went to my future to be husband’s family and portrayed bad stuff about me. I … [Read more...]

Question I have a problem my cousin asked me this question and i don’t know how to reply. He said he suspects his father of having an affair and he says he can prove it. (Through his phone)If he tells his mother it will end the marriage. What must he do? Answer Muhtaram / Muhtaramah   In the Name of Allāh, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful. As-salāmu ‘alaykum wa-rahmatullāh wa-barakātuh. There are three aspects to this … [Read more...]

Question Salam........I have a problem and i wish to get help for the imam...ok i got married 4 years ago in pakistan and i am from america. I got married on my parents will  because our family is mashallah very respectful so i went to pakistan .  When i went to pakistan i got married did nikah and after a couple of days in the marriage things were not going right...I didnt want to be near him i didnt i didnt want to have anything to … [Read more...]

Question     I will do my best to describe my situation so that things may be made clear to you.   I live in a country in the caribbean and married a sister in Canada in April of this year. She has two daughters(16 and 5) The older daughter lives with her ex husband and the younger lives with her. There was an issue with custody and mantainence of the child and thus the case went to the non muslim courts of that country. My … [Read more...]